Thursday 31 December 2020

My Books of 2020

I had set myself the challenge on Goodreads to read 70 books this year, and I smashed that by reading over 80! 

Next year, however, I'm going to be setting myself the more modest target of 50 books.  The reason for that is because I'm actually reading less when we're in lockdown!  At the start of Lockdown 1, I was reading a lot - everything had stopped, I was advised to self isolate, and it was sunny, so I was sat in the garden reading lots.  Bliss!  However, I was then told that I shouldn't have been told to self isolate, worked started up again (albeit virtually) and when the girls' dance classes started up, the parents couldn't wait inside, so I was driving more frequently back and forth, rather than waiting in the carpark in the cold, and when we brought our puppy home, I was then using that time to take her for walks - so even less reading.

So, here is my completed list of all the books that I have read this year, with links to my reviews - I have tried to review the books without giving away any spoilers.

Keen-eyed people may note that the last few don't have working links as yet, and that's because I haven't published the reviews yet, but when I do, I'll update this page.

Fiction


Non-Fiction


Christian Inspirational


So that's my list!  The formatting is a bit funny, but I thought 'sod that'.  The point of this post is to highlight the books, so I've left them large.  And yes, there are some books that fit into multiple categories, so I tried to put them in the most relevant one.

I don't have a favourite book of the year, but going through them all again now has reminded me of some pleasant memories.  I hope some of these titles call out to you, and you enjoy reading them as much as I have.


Tuesday 29 December 2020

Weekly Update - End of Year

I hope you have all had a good Christmas, despite the difficulties of not seeing friends and family because of Covid.


I had a nice relaxing time with my family and new pup.  We opened presents, ate a late lunch, and relaxed altogether.

Since then, I've started decorating my new room.  As we finished DD1's room, she has now moved up into the attic, and my room has been emptied.  So, I've painted one wall today, and I hope to paint the other three walls tomorrow.  I can then start buying furniture for it.  The biggest thing to go in there is a sofa bed, which we already have, but it'll be moved upstairs and I've got a new cover to go on it, so it will match the rest of the room.

I do need to do my Self-Assessment for my tutoring work.  I've never left it this late before.  I said the same last year, when I finally did it in October.  I just hope that next year, I don't leave it another 3+ months after the date I complete it this year (since the deadline is 31st January!).

After the New Year, I'll start reading up on the Home Ed stuff again, and fighting both locally and nationally.  Having my own work room will help me stay organised.

I still have one book review to write up, and ideally, I'd like to finish 3 of the books that I am currently reading, and write up reviews of those.  I'll then go through the whole year to give a complete list of the 70+books I have read this year.  Next year, I think I will lower the number of books I plan to read to about 50.  Not to say that I don't think I could read that many again, but if I am getting involved in other things, perhaps studying more too, I simply won't have time to read as much as I have done recently.  I am not sitting in the dance studios any more (due to covid) and haven't even finished the MosaiCraft portrait I bought for myself to do over Lockdown1.  Again, this is because I'm not sat waiting much anymore.  On a Tuesday, when I am waiting for an hour and a half, it is dark at the moment, and I have the pup with me, so it wouldn't be wise to do anything as fiddly as MosaiCraft.

I would like to start focussing on getting healthy again in the new year.  I am very aware that I need to get on the waiting list to have my mastectomy before I'm 40 (so I have 18months), and to have the reconstruction I really do want, I need to lose weight.  I have discovered that surgeons differ by how much weight I'd have to lose, so to know for sure, I will need to actually meet with one.  My mental state has enjoyed not weighing myself every day recently, but my clothes are aware that my weight is creeping up, as I expected it would (not least because it always does when I'm not weighing myself).  I find myself wondering if I can incidentally lose weight by focussing on a different area of my health?  What if I simply record what I am eating and how much exercise I am doing?  If I can get past the shame of recording every bite, will just knowing that I will be writing it later, help me focus my thoughts on healthy foods and the impacts that it will have on my health?  Maybe, just maybe.  And when it gets warmer, I do want to take my pup jogging (she likes it when I run with her now, but it isn't as fun for me when I'm wrapped in a big coat, scarf and boots, lol).

So, that's my quick update and vague plans for next year.

I pray that you can enjoy this festive period, and that your 2021 is better than this year has been xxx

Monday 21 December 2020

Review of Evidence from the Department of Education HED0987

HERE is a link to the information that I am reading through.  It is the written submission to the Education Select Committee as part of their Home Education Inquiry from the Department of Education. I have coloured the background of their words in pale blue, and will keep them in quotation marks.

Again, there is no initial summary, so I'm assuming it is under 3000 words.

The introduction and the first part of the evidence all seems ok.

P5 "The legal context for home education is set out in the Education Act 1996, section 7 of which sets out that the parent of every child of compulsory school age must cause the child to receive efficient HED0987 full-time suitable education, suitable (a) to his age, ability and aptitude, and (b) to any special education either by regular attendance at school or otherwise. The freedom to discharge this duty ‘otherwise’ than by sending a child regularly to school, in other words through home education, is a fundamental component of the right of parents to choose the kind of education that shall be given to their children and the Government is committed to preserving it."

P9 "During 2017 and 2018 there was growing concern about indications of a significant growth in home education, and a Private Member’s Bill was introduced by Lord Soley which provided for a home education registration and monitoring scheme. Against this background, the Department undertook a public consultation in April 2018 on home education policy."

P12 "Over 5,000 responses were received to the consultation and the Government response setting out next steps will be published in due course." including mine HERE.

There's lots of information about how the DfE has strengthened guidance regarding how schools should act.  

Then, in P23 "To support parents and children who may be considering, or have already withdrawn their child from school for, elective home education, we remain committed to a registration system for children not in school." What registration scheme? What will it achieve? Why have Home Educators not known about this upcoming change?  In case you've missed it before, HERE's my views on registration.  "More work is required on the practical aspects of delivery and the Government will also be engaging further with the home educating sector. Further details on this will be set out in the Government response to the CNIS consultation." I should bloody well hope that they will be engaging further with the home educating sector, and I hope we can come together to fight this registration scheme.

And the rest is about schools again.

All-in-all, this document sounds like it understands EHE, until it throws in the comment that they are bringing in a registration scheme and are committed to it.  Clearly further work needs to be done by home educators and HE organisations, to see if we can point out the flaws with registration, the additional costs it will incur, and how ultimately, it won't actually achieve anything it sets out to do.


Review of Evidence from Children's Commissioner Office HED0970

HERE is a link to the information that I am reading through.  It is the written submission to the Education Select Committee as part of their Home Education Inquiry from the Children's Commissioner Office. I have coloured the background of their words in pale blue, and will keep them in quotation marks.

There is no initial summary here, so I presume the submitted evidence is under 3000 words.

Introduction

"
The Commissioner has long had concerns that some home educated children may receive insufficient support and that there is little formal oversight of their educational progress or wellbeing."
And this report continues how it means to go on...  This first paragraph links to several reports (including Invisible Children which I reviewed the TV report of the same name HERE) but would take too long for me to go through each of these in detail now.

"The Commissioner welcomed the Government’s commitment to introduce a compulsory register of children in home education and looks forward to it being introduced at the earliest opportunity."
Has the government made such a commitment? When? How has this information been passed to home educators?

"It is thought that much of this increase is accounted for by families for whom home education is a last resort" - as I stated repeatedly in my read-through of Unicef's evidence, just because something is a last resort does not mean it is an uninformed choice.  Improve schools, definitely, that will improve things for many many children, but don't try to prevent people from home educating, just because you don't want to admit schools are failing.

"Often families make the decision without knowing what home education entails and receive little support to make a success of it, putting parents under immense strain and children missing out on education." I would like to see some stats here please.  Where is the evidence?

"In other cases, we have heard of families who have chosen to remove their children from school in order to go under the radar." Within the current guidance and law, this should already be impossible.  Any child who is removed from a school roll, the school should promptly inform the LA.  Children who are being home educated are not invisible nor hidden.

What the data shows us

Numbers of children being home educated has increased.  Good.  Parents are exercising their duty to educate their children otherwise than at school.  That alone should not be considered a bad thing.  If schools are failing, sort the schools out.  But it could just be because numbers are increasing, information is more available, and the number of people who have been home educated and are now adults are talking about their experiences, showing that HErs are not weird, but are well educated and fit right into society.

"The fact that many children come off the school roll into home education from a small group of schools suggests that the school itself is a key factor in that process. It might be that the parents are dissatisfied with the school and share their knowledge about home education as an alternative option. Or it could be that these schools are somehow encouraging, or perhaps even pressuring parents into making the decision to home educate. Our data does not allow us to tease apart these two explanations."
And in both of these scenarios, it is the school that needs to be further investigated, and not those who choose home education.

"On average, the rate of children being taken out of school into home education in schools rated ‘Inadequate’ in their most recent inspection13 was twice that of schools rated ‘Good’, and over three times the rate of schools rated ‘Outstanding’."
So in schools that are deemed inadequate, parents are doing their legal responsibility and ensure their children get a good education by removing them from the inadequate school? I don't know whether to simply reply 'good' or 'no shit, Sherlock!'.

What needs to happen now

"But children should only be in home education if it is for the right reasons. And it is clear that some children end up in home education because school isn’t working for them. In some cases they have been denied the educational and pastoral support they need to thrive at school, leading to delayed educational progress at home, poor mental health and wellbeing and increased familial stress."
As opposed to all those children who are in school who are not making educational progress there, have poor mental health and wellbeing and increased familial and academic stress?

"Home education is an enormous undertaking for any family, especially those who may have struggled with school themselves."
Evidence Please.

"Parents often do not receive the support they need to make an informed choice before making the decision to home educate. Where proper advice and information is available, it is clear to see that most parents choose to keep their children in school."
Evidence Please.

"Furthermore, it is unacceptable that there is currently so little oversight of children being educated at home. Without this, there can be no guarantee that all home educated children are safe and getting the education they need and deserve."
Why? Education and welfare should never be conflated.

"A statutory register of children not in school must be introduced without delay. The Government announced plans to create a register following the publication of the Commissioner’s previous report on home education and consulted on its proposals last year. However no Government response has yet been published."
Search this blog if you want to see my thoughts why a register is not a good idea.

"Termly visits" No, just no.
"In October 2019 a Serious Case Review found that there is very little local authorities can do when they suspect problems with a home educated child’s welfare or education" This isn't actually true.  If LAs suspect problems with a child's education, they can serve a Notice to Satisfy s437, and if they are still not satisfied, they can give a School Attendance Order.  As for welfare, again, there are things that can be done.  If you look at the SCR referenced, it says that the child was not taken to medical appointments nor to CAHMS, and because of the missed appointment, rather than being chased up, the child was simply removed from these lists.  It is these protocols that are of concern to a child's welfare.

The recommendations 3-5 under Improved Support for Home Educators, aren't actually too bad.  I think they should be optional, as 'support' of this kind often has strings attached, but better compared to the rest of this report.


The final section of this report is all about how schools can improve, so should not be listed under a review into EHE, imo.
Paragraph 9 does say "The process for taking a child off the school roll to be home-educated should be aligned with the process for a permanent exclusion, so that it involves the same level of oversight, and safeguards – including a governors’ panel and independent review panel." and as long as this governor's panel and independent review is internal and investigative for the school, it's not an issue, however we need to be careful that this doesn't become a stepping stone to the parents/child needing approval before EHE is granted.

Review of Evidence from Unicef UK HED0434

HERE is a link to the information that I am reading through.  It is the written submission to the Education Select Committee as part of their Home Education Inquiry from Unicef UK. I have coloured the background of their words in pale blue, and will keep them in quotation marks.

I have not yet read through this document, and here are my initial thoughts and opinions.  

"UNICEF, the United Nations Children’s Fund, is mandated by the UN General Assembly to uphold the UN Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC) and promote the rights and wellbeing of every child."

If the submission is over 3000 words, you need to provide a summary at the start of the document.  The summary given in full:
"Unicef UK is submitting evidence to the Education Select Committee with the aim of highlighting the role the Government can, and must, play in delivering every child’s right to education, including in the case of elective home education. This submission focusses in particular on the rights of the child and how they relate to the choice, regulation, inspection, delivery, and safety of home education, including in the context of the Coronavirus pandemic. Unicef UK recommends that the Department for Education take a child rights approach to home education, ensuring that it is upholding its obligation as a duty bearer of the United Nations Convention on the Rights of the Child (UNCRC). This, in turn, requires strengthened guidance for Local Authorities (LAs) that recognises the rights impacted by home education."

At a high level, that doesn't sound too bad.  However, when talking about the rights of a child to be inspected, have they considered the rights of the child to not be inspected?  We'll see...

Paragraphs 1-5 talk about Education and Child's Rights, and there's nothing to discuss there.
Paragraph 6, within Meaningful Choice in Home Education, states "Home education should not be a last resort and should be elected, not forced upon, any family or child". I do agree that home education should not be a last resort, but it often is and turns out to be the best choice for the children by parents who barely knew about home education initially.  Similarly, just because it is a last choice, does not mean it hasn't been elected by the parents.  They are not mutually exclusive.  However, since we're next looking at off-rolling and exclusions, I will give it some grace as to what they meant.

Paragraph 8 gives an interesting statistic! "Indeed, one quarter of teachers have seen off-rolling happen in their school and 62% reported that ‘schools pressure parents to accept their child being off-rolled’." From This Link

The recommendation after the section about SEN says: "Recommendation: the DfE should continue to undertake special oversight and increase support for children with SEND, ensuring that any move to home education is a choice and not a result of unsuitable provision in school."
However, again, I reiterate that home education can be a choice even if the choice has come about because of unsuitable provision in school.  This should be taken up by Ofsted etc as schools failing their responsibility for their pupils, rather than making things more difficult for home educators.

Paragraph 12 is all about the child's right to be heard, and I totally agree that children should have a voice.  Their recommendation is "Recommendation: the DfE should revisit its approach to Article 12 of the UNCRC, encouraging Local Authorities to meaningfully consult the views of children in home education decisions, regulation, and inspection."  LAs should absolutely not use this as an excuse to meet and monitor home educated children.  Offer a visit, by all means, but it should be voluntary as the child has the right to decline.  Children can always give their views in writing.  Similarly, children in schools should be consulted regarding their education decisions and whether they may prefer to be in a differing school or educated at home.

Then things start to take a turn for the worse...

Paragraph 13 is about learning from the Experiences of Other Countries.  Two of the four cited countries only allow Home Education in "exceptional circumstances", and one only allows it with approval from the local ministry of Education.  Even the final country mentioned, it is often only allowed with approval or if the child is under a local school.  
In the UK, we have a legal right to home educate our children, and we should not be blindly agreeing to have these rights taken away from us.

P.14 says "Notification and approval, inspection, and regulation are the only ways for the Government to satisfy itself that home educated children in England are receiving a quality education.
Really?  What about all the other ways of life where the government has a duty to its citizens but doesn't go crazy like this.  Is there no realisation that giving LAs and the government powers like this erodes other rights of the child or of family life?

P16. "If parents or guardians were required to not only inform local authorities about their intent to home educate, but in fact seek approval to do so (such as in New Zealand), they would have the opportunity to articulate these challenges and could be offered another opportunity for their child." If parents or guardians were required to seek approval to home educate, then this right will effectively be removed.  Home education is an opportunity for the child to receive an education at least as good as what can be provided in school, and should not be removed on a whim.  The best way for parents and guardians to articulate the challenges mentioned, would be for LAs to stick to their current remit (which they already fail, rather than giving them more powers) which would encourage home educators to maintain a good relationship with the LA.  Until LAs can behave, they are causing home educators to not want to engage with them.

P17 talks about hearing children's voices regarding home education.  I ask again, whether Unicef have asked children (in countries like the UK) whether they want to be in school?

P18 "If parents or guardians should choose to remove their children from mainstream education, these children must not disappear from records. If they do, their education, health, and other rights are at risk." Having a compulsory register of home educators will not solve these disappearing children, because schools already have to inform the LA of children being removed from the roll.

P20, 21 and the recommendation goes a step further and asks for 6monthly inspections of home educators. There is no reason given here.  I'm just in shock and annoyed. EHEOs are not trained in home education, child development, or pedagogy. Given HErs do not have to follow the curriculum or keep up with schooled peers, none of this makes sense.

P23 is talking about minimum standards for HErs - given that there is no evidence that HErs are 'behind' school peers at the end of compulsory education, and that many schooled children come out of school with passes in maths or English GCSEs, this seems a ludicrous suggestion and yet more unneeded and unwarranted state interference.

P24. "When assessing the suitability of home education, it is critical that the view of the child is heard and considered. Seeking the views of children can happen in many forms, but should ideally happen through a home visit, away from parents, and with a known contact." So rather than just giving children a voice, you actually want to question them without their parents present?  Children are not criminals, and neither are their parents.  Unless there is a significant reason why this can be justified, this is totally abhorrent.  I will ask at this point, do they do similar and frequently (let's say every 6 months??) ask schooled children, without parents or teachers present, whether they want to go to school or not?

P26 starts the section about safeguarding and includes "safeguarding is of concern when a child is home educated." Really?  What evidence is there for such a misinformed statement?

(Sorry for starting to skim now.  Family keeps distracting me!)

P32 "Home education should never be a last resort." Home Education should be a first resort, and only if it doesn't work or isn't suitable should schools then be considered.  Somehow I'm guessing that isn't quite what they were meaning.

P33 says there should be another review of the EHE guidance due to Covid19, even though the latest guidance was only published last year.  I hope that suggestion goes with the rest of the document, an is taken with a pinch of salt.

So that's the end of the Unicef submitted evidence.  It shows a deep lack of understanding about home education and home education within UK law.  It goes on about the rights of the child, but all too easy gives excessive rights to the government, and there is no acknowledgement about failings of schools and the government which adds into its concerns.


Weekly Update

 It's nearly CHRISTMAS!! Yey!

🎵Four more sleeps to go!
Four more sleeps to Santa!
Four more sleeps 'til the big fat fella comes down our chimney and drinks our beer.
Four more sleeps to Santa!🎶

So this week, we have bought and made DD1's new bed, emptied out her old room (I am yet to start painting), finished working for the year and travelled to a random services on the motorway in order to swap presents before parts of the country go into tier 4.

We're fortunate, in that our plans haven't changed too much as we were going to be home over Christmas itself anyway, but we're unable to see family before and after.  It is for the best, and though I think things could have been done by the government a lot sooner, it is definitely necessary.  

If I don't get the chance to say it, I hope you have the best Christmas you can this year, given the circumstances xx

Tuesday 15 December 2020

Weekly Update

You may have noticed that I have not numbered this weekly update. 
I also have not weighed myself recently.  

This is not a weightloss update.

After spending some time thinking about things, I have decided that I am going to use these weekly updates as just that - a way to update you guys with what has been happening this week, and not use it as a stick to beat myself that I am not losing weight.  As such, it doesn't matter if this is weekly update no 1 or no 422.  The date is automatically attached to the blog post, and you can search it by month if you are so inclined.

This week, I have spend a lot of time painting DD1's bedroom. Of course, she didn't want just one colour on her walls, but two.  And she didn't want one colour on each wall, but two - in a diagonal (I can only be glad that she didn't want an actually fade between the two colours, lol). And I had to paint her ceiling, by myself, with a brush because we had run out of new roller thingies. And then, we had to replace her carpet with laminate, which took the whole of Sunday, but I am (and more importantly, DD1 is) pleased with the results.


We have just ordered her a new bed (which should arrive before Christmas!) and I'm starting to move her stuff upstairs today.  Once her current room is empty, I can then start painting that for my study - yey!  I'm sooooo looking forward to that.  Well, not the painting, but it does need to be done, but I'm looking forward to having my own space where I can hide away when I need to. 

This week, we have also been following a local Christmas Lights Trail.  When I purchased the pack, I was expecting there to be 15 or 20 houses to visit - not over 80!  We did a few on Sunday night, but it looks like we won't be finishing in time for the competition this Sunday, lol.

I'm also continuing with the home education stuff. Locally, we've just requested a formal co-production process with the LA for updating their policy and training.  We'll see if that makes any headway!
Nationally, I'm still involved with the EHE Alliance, looking to fight the HE register and keep up the pressure during this HE Inquiry by the Education Select Committee.

Monday 7 December 2020

Weighty Worries

I've been trying to write this post for the past fortnight, and I keep starting and deleting.  I'm going round in circles in my mind and I don't know what to do.

I am not losing weight.  It's easy enough to see why - I'm not limiting my eating enough and/or not exercising enough.  And I don't want to.  There, I said it.  I've known for a while my mind isn't in the right place to lose weight.

I'm ok with how I look.  Whilst ideally I would like to lose some weight, actually, I'm ok with how I am. I do have moments, especially when I'm on zoom calls, where I notice my double chin is looking more like a triple or quadruple chin, and I would like to be thinner so I have more choice of clothing, but I don't care enough to change for those reasons.

I'm trying to lose weight in order to have DIEP reconstruction when I have my double mastectomy.  I haven't spoken to a GP or surgeon yet, because I've heard that in order to have DIEP your BMI has to be below a certain level. My BMI is currently 34.5 and I've heard it should be a maximum of 27, if not 25 (ie top end of Healthy weight). So, I've started to think about having implants instead.  I've got no issue with implants, but it's not what I wanted, and that thought makes me sad. Yet, surely if I cared enough, I would make the effort to lose weight? Surely I wouldn't be stuffing mince pies in my gob at every opportunity?

When I had my hysterectomy, I planned on having mastectomy by the time I'm 40.  I'm 38 now, which means (assuming it takes a year for the process [ignoring coronavirus]), I need to see my GP and request it in less than 6 months time. I lack the self belief, let alone will-power, that I am going to be able to lose weight in that time.

I feel like stopping actively trying to lose weight is quitting.  And that isn't good for my depression.
I feel like continuing with the charade of weekly updates makes me a fraud.  And that isn't good for my depression.

If I could have surgery today and any reconstruction I want, I would choose DIEP, even with the added risks of being overweight and the longer recovery time.  Implants is an option, and I could potentially swap implants for DIEP later in the future.  But I don't want implants.  And I don't like to fail.

Who knows? This could be my depression talking, because it's dark and wintery, I've missed my antidepressants a bit too often recently, and I want an excuse to not have to watch what I'm eating with Christmas coming up.  Or it could be that I'm finally facing up to the truth that I don't have the willpower, energy, or strength of character to lose weight effective.  I'm just too lazy.

Monday 30 November 2020

Weekly Update Y2w48

 Do you know, it's taken me til nearly the end of the year, before I noticed that I've numbered these weeks wrong?!  According to people in the know, it's actually week 49 this week, and that 2020 has 53 weeks in it.  I'm not going to change it now, but thought it was worth commenting.

I haven't actually weighed myself this morning. Yesterday I was 91.5kg and have been bobbling around there for a while, so still not go below 90kilos.  I don't have any defence, other than the Christmas overeating has already started for me - lebkuchen, iced mince pies, chocolate spread straight from the tub, all the usuals, lol.  If I can get to the other side of Christmas without putting weight on, I'll be happy.  I am trying to eat veggies most still.  My husband and I don't have potatoes or bread often any more with our Sunday dinners, but pile up different types of vegetables, and my tastes are slowly changing.  

I haven't got a graph today either.  I was up all night with my pup (and then DD2 came downstairs in the middle of the night after a nightmare) so between the two of them, I haven't had much sleep), so when I woke up and played on my phone (sorry, the daily challenges of Woodoku, Sudoku and Killer Sudoku won't play themselves, ya know) my phone promptly died, so it's currently charging, disabling me from being able to update my spreadsheet.

The past couple of weeks, most my time has been taken up with HE stuff, which is pretty obvious with what I've been posting recently.  There's still more to do, but I was glad I was able to take a day off and not switch my laptop on at all yesterday.

I've also been busy painting DD1's bedroom! It just needs a second coat of blue, the ceiling painted, and the carpet changed for laminate, then she can move in, and I'll be a step closer to getting my own work room!  I want to paint it before I start working there because I know what I'm like - I'd fill it with all my stuff, then decide it'll be too much of a hassle removing everything to paint it, so it will never get done.

I'm aware I haven't written any book reviews for ages either.  I currently have 1 or 2 that I'm still waiting to write, but haven't yet had the time, but I haven't read as much as usual recently, again because of my time taken up reading through various documents, guidance, and letters from LAs.

Friday 27 November 2020

Part5 - Reading Through Children Missing Education Document by ISOS Partnership November 2020

Part 5, and hopefully the last part. I quite concede that it would have been quicker for you to read it through yourself last weekend, but we’re here now.


HERE is the link to the document I am reading through.

HERE is the link to Part 1.

Chapter 6: Recommendations for National Government

It is vital that, nationally, we have a system of oversight to ensure that all children receive their entitlement to a formal, full-time education.

A reminder, children are not entitled to a formal, full-time education.

Paragraph 110 from 2009/10 Children, Schools and Families Committee – Second Report:The Review of Elective Home Education - Children, Schools and Families Committee (HERE) states:

As outlined, under section 7 of the Education Act 1996, parents have a duty to provide their child with a "full-time", "efficient" and "suitable" education. As the Department's home education guidelines state, there is no legal definition of "full-time". They add: "Children normally attend school for between 22 and 25 hours a week for 38 weeks of the year, but this measurement of "contact time" is not relevant to elective home education where there is often almost continuous one-to-one contact and education may take place outside normal "school hours"". The guidelines also cite the following case law descriptions: an "efficient" education described as one that "achieves that which it sets out to achieve"; a "suitable" education described as one that "primarily equips a child for life within the community of which he is a member, rather than the way of life in the country as a whole, as long as it does not foreclose the child's options in later years to adopt some other form of life if he wishes to do so".”
(The case mentioned being Justice Woolf in R v Secetary of State for Education and Science, ex parte Talmud Torah Machzikei Hadass School Trust. 1985.)

Back to this report...

As an outcome from this research, we would therefore recommend that the Department for Education considers the following actions, that would support local government to discharge their duties in respect of ensuring all children are able to access a formal full-time education more comprehensively:

Raise the profile of children missing formal full-time education

Our research has shown that the current statutory definition of children missing education does not capture many of the children who are missing out on a suitable education. … We would therefore recommend that the Government adopts a broader definition of children who are missing out on formal, fulltime education, collects and publishes data on the numbers of children who meet the definition and tracks the long-term destinations and outcomes for children missing formal full-time education.

This is ridiculous, it is quite unbelievable that a professional research company has written it.

They have chosen their own definition of CME that goes against guidance, law and case law. Then say that loads of home educators are not providing an education and that nobody knows the outcomes of children educated in that way, and don’t even think to contact any Home Education organisations who may be willing to share such information! As you saw from the response to the email I said, they still don’t think they did anything wrong by not contacting nor collaborating with home educators.

Resource local authorities adequately to fulfil their responsibilities in relation to ensuring all children receive a suitable education

The evidence gathered through this research suggests that the lack of capacity and resources within local authorities is one of the key barriers to ensuring that all children receive a suitable formal, full-time education. ... In the current financial climate, few local authorities have the resources needed for the true scale of that task.

So why exactly are you trying to expand the definition of CME to include many more children who are receiving a suitable, efficient and full-time education, thereby stretching resources even further? It’s a crazy suggestion!

Create a learning environment in which more children can succeed

This suggestion is aimed at schools.

Strengthen the legislative framework around electively home educated children

In April 2019 the Government consulted on changes to primary legislation that would strengthen the oversight and mechanisms for reassurance around electively home educated children. It proposed a new duty on local authorities to maintain a register of children of compulsory school age who are not at a state funded or registered independent school and a new duty on parents to provide information if their child is not attending a mainstream school. The purpose of these changes would be to enable better registration and visibility of those educated other than at school. The evidence collected through this research suggests that both changes would be beneficial in strengthening the oversight afforded to vulnerable children within this cohort and we therefore recommend that the necessary legislative changes are made at the first opportunity.

The evidence collected suggests it would be beneficial only because you have limited your “research” to those who want a register. You did not attempt to contact the people who would be affected by such a change, ie Home Educators and HE organisations, nor ask whether this proposal would actually achieve what it sets out to? (Using the definition of “efficient” previously given, a register would certainly not be efficient.)

Epilogue

It has become apparent very quickly that schools do not only provide education, essential as that is. Schools are also the eyes and ears of a society that cares about the welfare and safety of children. The first essential line of defence for that very small minority of children who are at risk from their families or the communities in which they live. It is also clear that schools provide advice and support within communities and an eco-system of social interactions that bring families who live in a local area together.”

Rose-tinted glasses! (I won’t say what my first though was on reading this.)

Appendix A

Children on a school roll but not attending full-time, may include flexischoolers who have permission from their headteacher to only be in school at certain times, and they should not be grouped with truants, school refusers or any other children in this category who may be missing education.

Elective Home Education: as shown in Part 1, a parent opting to electively home educate their child can be a route into a child missing formal education. This does not mean, however, that all children who are home educated are missing education. What has been striking in recent years is the rapid increase in the numbers of children being electively home educated and, of those, the high proportion who are vulnerable in some way. Therefore, we have used the 2014/15 EHE figure taken at census (23,000)46 as our baseline for ‘children who are EHE and receiving adequate education’. The uplift from the 2014/15 deadline to 2018/19 is 31,656. Given this high growth, we have made the assumption that 75% of that uplift accounts for ‘children who are EHE but not receiving adequate education’. We have assumed the remaining 25% growth might be accounted for by other factors, including population growth. Therefore, we estimate the number of children who are being EHE but are not receiving adequate education to be 24,000.

So, between 2014/15 and 2018/19 there was an increase in numbers of home educated children of over 30,000. From these numbers only (I haven’t looked at the original source) this could be an increase of 7,500 children per year; which in turn, spread over 150 LAs (I know there are more than this, I am just keeping the maths simple) that mean each LA has had an increase of 50 children home educated per year. Given the number of schooled children and how accessible information about Home Education and the support on offer from peers and HE organisations, this doesn’t actually sound like an excessive number.

Continuing with their analysis, “we have made the assumption that 75% of that uplift accounts for ‘children who are EHE but not receiving adequate education’”.

Where does this 75% assumption come from? 

I thought it incredible, and looked like it had been plucked out of thin air earlier in this report, but was holding out until Appendix A to find out the rationale behind it. It turns out there is none. They literally pulled it out of thin air, made it up on the spot, and have absolutely zilch to back this figure up. At the very least, I would have hoped there was a slither of analysis – perhaps they contacted LAs and asked them for the number of EHErs and the number of s437 notices issued or SAOs or anything to give a glimmer of a number comparing how many EHE children there are, to how many whose education is unsatisfactory. Or perhaps an indication of the increase in s437s issued in 2014/15 to 2018/19, and applied this number across the 32,000 children who are “newly” home educated? But no, it is totally senseless. Not least because suppose someone took their child out of school in 2015, it seems very odd that you would still consider them “new” in 2019, when a child in Y3 of primary or Y10 of secondary schools, would hardly be considered “new” to school.



So that’s the end of the document and my updates. Sorry it has gone on so long. For a 58 page document, this is page 32 of my rebuttal, and undoubtedly I could have said a lot more.

Wednesday 25 November 2020

Part4 - Reading Through Children Missing Education Document by ISOS Partnership November 2020

 

HERE is the link to the document I am reading through.

HERE is the link to Part 1.



I have to admit, I’m getting tired now. In case you didn’t see my update on facebook yesterday, not only am I reading through this and watching the Education Select Committee on Parliament.tv, but I am also trying to help out local HErs, who have been wrongly issued s437s by our LA. They have since come back and said ‘oops, that’s meant to be s436a’ but they still want loads of unlawful information, and for it to be provided by this Friday, and with the threat of an SAO. I am pleased to see that some HErs are fighting back, each in their own way, either complaining by letter or email, or asking for the corrected letters with a new time frame in which to respond, or by seeking legal action to prevent this from happening to others. In other news, I have been asked to join a panel of people who represent HErs, so that is exciting and I’d like to know more about that. And finally (for this rambly intro, anyway), I had a response from ISOS to my email that I mentioned in Part 1. I have to say, I’m not happy with the response, as they seem to want to wash their hands of the damage and have ignored the affects by ridiculously grouping HErs with CME.

My letter:

Good morning,


I have read through your recent publication on Children Missing Education (Nov 2020) and have noted that you have used the phrase “home education” 30 times, and “home educated” 37 times.  Given that Home Educated children are not Children Missing Education, I am interested in why your document seems to fail to make the distinction between these two separate groups? Similarly, Off-rolling is not the fault of home educators, but that of schools.

Furthermore, in your Bibliography, I cannot see a single Home Education organisation listed has having been used in this research, and there are many within the UK.  Given this document is to influence policy, and many of these recommendations will have a negative impact for home educators, I would like to know why our needs have not been considered?

I hope I am wrong, and I have misread or overlooked a reference within the document itself.  Please can you point me towards which Home Education sites or organisations you have used to complete this document?

Kind Regards,”

Their response:

Thank you for taking the time to read our report and for getting in touch. In commissioning us to undertake the research the Local Government Association asked us to:

  • Develop a national picture of trends in numbers and characteristics of children and young people who are missing a formal full-time education;

  • Understand the routes whereby children and young people end up missing education;

  • Assess the factors which are contributing to the increasing numbers of children missing education;

  • Describe the impact of children and young people missing out on education;

  • Identify good practice in how local authorities and their partners can reduce the numbers of children missing education;

Our focus has therefore, throughout, been on those children who are not receiving their entitlement to education, rather than those who are. For the purposes of the research we define ‘formal, full-time education’ as an education that is “well-structured, contains significant taught input, pursues learning goals that are appropriate to a child or young person’s age and ability and which supports them to access their next stage in education, learning or employment”. We define full-time as 18hrs per week. Under our definition, we believe children who are successfully educated at home would be receiving formal full-time education. We do not equate formal full time education with school-based education and we try to state as clearly as we can in the report that in the majority of cases children who are electively home educated are receiving a formal full time education, in the way that we have defined it for the research. We state:

not all the children who are taken out of school at the instigation of their parents end up missing out on their entitlement to education. Far from it. Indeed, many parents provide an excellent education for their children outside of school. However, the more parents who opt for this route either out of desperation (because they simply do not believe that the education they can access is meeting their child’s needs) or out of fear of or hostility to the actions that schools and government take to safeguard the well-being and development of children, the more children are likely to miss out on their entitlement to education.

We believe that we have not conflated the two groups of home educated children and children missing education. However, we do believe from the evidence that we have gathered from parents, headteachers and local authorities that there is a subset of children who are electively home educated in name, but in practice are receiving very little education. These may be children

  1. whose parents have agreed to home-educate under duress (possibly as a result of an off-rolling action by a school) but are unable or unwilling to actually provide education,

  2. whose parents are home educating as a last resort but who do not feel they have the skills or capacity to undertake this duty successfully (often in cases where the school system is unable to meet the special educational needs of a child)

  3. whose parents are using home education as a way to avoid legitimate action for non-attendance at school or occasionally even as a means to hinder safeguarding concerns being followed up.

These clearly represent a minority of those children currently electively home educated, but they are a concern. It is also a concern that there is currently no definitive way of telling what percentage of home educated children are not receiving a suitable education.

We do not single out home education as the only possible route whereby children might be missing out on their entitlement to education. For example, we also draw attention to children who are currently on a school roll and missing out on education either because they are attending part-time, or because they are absent for long periods or because they have been subject to multiple exclusions. Similarly, we suggest that a proportion of children in alternative provision may also be missing out on education.

In terms of how we carried out our research, our focus on the children not receiving their entitlement to education guided our choice of organisations to engage. As such, we worked with the LGA and the National Network of Parent Carer Forums to gather feedback from parents who had direct experience of the issues we were exploring through the research.

I hope this helps to shed some further light on our research.

Best wishes

Natalie”

I think this does warrant some follow-up, but I haven’t got my head around what it should be yet.

Back to the report itself…



Chapter 4: What is the impact on children, families and society of children missing education?

Of course, as we have outlined elsewhere in this report, the decision for an individual child to leave a specific school might be the right decision. There were examples in our parents’ survey of where that particular choice has resulted in better outcomes for the child in question. … However, in such cases, the parent has stepped in to provide or commission the education that the child needs.

And that is exactly what ALL Home Education is – the parent facilitating the learning of the child. It does not have to be structured, it does not have to be formal. It does not have to follow a timetable, a curriculum nor a school day. It does not have to have a set number of hours each week (to be considered full time).

The detrimental impacts we discuss in the following sections are where the child does not end up receiving formal, full-time education that is suitable for his or her needs.

I repeat: It does not have to be structured, it does not have to be formal. It does not have to follow a timetable, a curriculum nor a school day. It does not have to have a set number of hours each week (to be considered full time).

EHE is not CME!

The report then goes on to explain the impact/potential impact of a child missing education. I don’t disagree with many of these points, only to say that an electively home educated child is NOT missing education, so should not even be mentioned in reports such as this.

A child or young person that misses full-time, formal education lacks consistent access to teaching ... In missing out, either intermittent lessons or large periods of a term, a child may miss important work and fall behind peers.”

It explicitly states in the EHE Departmental Guidance, that HErs do NOT have to worry about keeping to the same levels as schooled peers.

Local authorities emphasised that it was not just missing out on key periods of a school year impacting attainment that was a problem. But that missing out on careers advice and progress meetings with teachers and mentors to plan for the future also contributed to later low employability. This is borne out in the research - the Badman Review…

Head. Meet. Desk.

Mention his name to any Home Educators in the past 10years or so, and you will be greeted with a collective sigh. Mr Badman doesn’t like home educators so was doing all in his power to stop it.

If you want some more info (because frankly, I don’t have the mental capacity to break it down and simplify it right now, here are some links:

Libertarian Education: https://www.libed.org.uk/index.php/reviews/178-articles/298-the-badman-review
Action for Home Education: http://ahed.pbworks.com/w/page/1553033/LiesDamnedLiesStatistics

Autonomous Education UK: http://www.uncharted-worlds.org/aeuk/2009-aeuk-select-committee-enquiry.html

Ed Yourself: https://edyourself.wordpress.com/2015/03/15/badman-review-of-home-education/

A thorough google search will bring up many, many more.

Humorously, this video of The Badman Song still brings a smile to my face.


The Office of National Statistics has also quantified the link between low attainment and employability in the general population. … Evidence provided by local authorities, parents, schools and national bodies, as well as existing data and research, therefore, suggests missing out consistently on education affects the educational attainment for children and young people, which in turn has long-term ramifications for employability through into later life.

And this is one of the problems with having a narrow, school-based view of what education looks like. Home Educators are very aware that there is no timescale for learning, and just because something has not been learned by a specific age, it does not mean that it can never be learned.

Mental health and wellbeing

Unpacking the relationship between mental health and missing education is complex. As we have set out already in this report, poor mental health or emotional wellbeing, often linked to extreme anxiety, can be one of the factors that leads to a child missing out on formal full-time education. It was certainly a key consideration for many of the parents who responded to our survey.

If you remove “formal full-time”, then it doesn’t read too bad.

In a very small number of cases local authorities identified how the unsupported mental health needs of isolated young people who were not in school had tragically resulted in suicide.”

Not in school” or “Children Missing Education”? They are clearly two very different things. Almost unanimously, the anecdotal evidence for Home Education says that the mental health of the child/whole family improves once the child has deregistered, with many parents wishing they had either made the change earlier, or that their child had never gone to school in the first place.

It would also be interesting to compare this statistic, with the number of schooled children who tragically commit suicide.

As the NSPCC’s briefing on ‘Home education: learning from serious case reviews’ (March 2014) outlines, children who are home educated become isolated because they have no right to independent access to friends, family but also professional agencies who could provide distinct and specialist support.

Well, NSPCC is another group that doesn’t like HE due to stereotypes and myth. In reality, Wendy Charles Warner reviewed all SCRs recently (I can’t remember the date off the top of my head, but was in the past couple of years – I’m sure a google would find it; I’ve even mentioned it in previous blog posts) and in NONE of them was HE a contributing factor in the death or serious neglect of the child.

It must be emphasised that although legally, home educated children have the same rights to access mental health support in the form of CAMHS, by not being in school, a child will have access to fewer trained professionals who can spot warning signs around mental health, such as school nurses, counsellors, external mentors and in-school specialist support.

Not true at all. Any caring parent will want the best for their child, and home educating parents are no different. If anything, HEing parents often have to fight in order to access various support and professionals! Having a lack of access is not, and should not, be blamed on the parents.

And incidentally, “school nurses” have a responsibility for all children of Compulsory School Age (CSA), whether in school or not.

Social and emotional development

The lack of social interaction experienced by children missing education and the potential negative impact of this was a key issue highlighted in our regional workshops.

That is simply because you have not asked people involved with home education; individuals, families nor organisations. Pre-covid (hands-up, things are a bit trickier atm with the constant lockdowns and tiered lockdowns), in my local area, we had a minimum of 5 groups or meets listed for every week day. As a home educator, you couldn’t do everything, but there literally isn’t enough time in the day! Home educators in other parts of the country report similar things. If you live in a particularly rural or isolated area, you may have to make a bit more of an effort, but with technology (proven, thanks in part to covid), there is social interaction even if you so have to stay at home for a period.

Local authorities expressed concern about children’s low self-esteem and lack of confidence to interact with peers as a result of being removed from or missing full-time education and the possibility of poor emotional development in the longer term.

Any evidence for this? Noting, again, that being removed from education (I’m assuming being expelled) or missing education (I’m assuming truancy) is different and will have different impacts on the child, compared to one who has been removed from school in order to be EHE.

This is echoed by significant research into the importance of social interaction and the negative impacts (both short and long-term) of a child that is not socialising sufficiently early or consistently. Key impacts of a lack of social interaction include: low confidence and self-esteem, in particular the lack of belief in a child’s ability to manage stressful situations; anxiety; social withdrawal; and a lack of ability to make friends and therefore, form supportive social networks throughout their lives.

I wonder if any research has been done on the negative impacts (both short and long term) of a child that is being forced to socialise against their will, and consistent negative interactions, such as bullying?

The impact that social isolation can have on a child’s life are comprehensively examined in ‘Social isolation in childhood and adult inflammation’ (August 2014) by Lacey et al. The study uses data from the National Child Development Study (NCDS) which looked at babies born in 1958 and examined them at age intervals until they were 50 years old.

That report is: https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S0306453014003126 and says about its limitations: “There was no formal measure of childhood social isolation available, however our measure comprises a question relating to peer withdrawal (isolation) and a question relating to peer rejection (bullying) which likely represent different aspects of social isolation. When we looked separately at each of these questions, the associations we saw were largely driven by the bullying item although the other item about preferring to be alone was still associated with raised CRP without considering the bullying item (results not shown).”

Given that Home education was less common in 1958, surely it can be assumed that the participants of this study were schooled children, and as such it cannot be assumed to be correct when discussion home educated children?

Therefore, their definition of social isolation is not identical to the social isolated experienced by children missing education. Nonetheless, it seems reasonable that similar issues might also be experienced by children who are regularly missing out on exposure to peers and a variety of people.

No, I don’t consider that to be reasonable, at all. (Again, not to mention that EHE kids are rarely socially isolated.)

I do feel like I’m repeating myself a lot, so apologies for that, though I think it does bear repeating.

Safeguarding

Throughout our research a key message that has come out of the evidence gathered is that schools and educational settings are a “protective factor” in society…

Instead, I’d wager that schools (and in turn various authorities) consider that schools and educational settings are a protective factor, rather than there being actual evidence to indicate this. In the highly publicised SCRs, EHE has never been a contributing factor, and all the children were already known to the relevant authorities (not limited to the LAs or Social Services).

Crime and exploitation

This whole section is mainly linking exclusions to crime.

On families and society Local authorities that we engaged in our research were keen to express the broader impact children missing education had on families and society as a whole. From our discussions, the following themes emerged:

1. Family breakdown

2. Worklessness and poverty

3. Reinforcing stereotypes

It would be interesting to see if there has been any research done relating to these themes and home education? Many people report to having grown closer as a family, through home education, because they see their children (and in turn, the children see their siblings) all the time, not just when they are tired and hungry after a long school day, when they return home feeling overwhelmed and all the anguish and frustration gets released in an explosion. As this happens day after day, family relationships do not have the time to repair as for large sections of the day, they are either asleep or separated at school.

Family breakdown

Having a child at home for extended periods of time can put strain on parents who are not necessarily trained in home education. With parents unable to leave a child alone, some mentioned how they had lost friendships and/or opportunities to socialise themselves. For some parents, they stated how high stress and home education had contributed to bouts of anxiety and depression.

Firstly there is no training required to Home Educate your own children. The EHE Departmental Guidance states that parents are not required to have reached a specific academic level in order to HE. Whilst in recent years, you can now get diplomas in HE, they are actually totally unnecessary. Home Education is all about facilitating the education, not that you have to be highly qualified and have to teach from your own knowledge, what it is the child wants to learn. And regarding the impact of HE on a parent’s mental health, I would counter and say (anecdotally, as I have not done the research on this) that forcing a parent to offer a formal structured education to their children is likely to do more harm, whereas a child who is allowed to follow their own interests and learn autonomously is more likely to have mentally healthy parents. (Please note the emphasis on forcing. I’m a strong believer that they style of home education that suits the child and the family is by its very nature the best for that family, whether that be structured, unstructured, eclectic or anything else.)

Worklessness and poverty

Both from our parent survey and through discussions with local authority officers, many voiced concerns around the financial implications that a child missing education can have. This was particularly the case if a parent had to quit their job to look after or educate their child at home. But it was also problematic when families had to pay for resources for home education or for specialist treatments, advocates or professional reports if trying to support the child’s special educational needs.

When a family decides to electively home educate a child, they do take full financial responsibility for the education, whether that be outsourcing specific groups/activities, buying equipment and books, paying for exams etc. It is important that a parent realises this before they decide to HE, and yet another reason why Off-rolling is so bad.

However, it is possible to HE and work at the same time, whether that be part-time or full-time, in the home or outside it. It is even possible to HE as a single parent on benefits. Yes, there may be lifestyle adaptations needed, but just because the family may no longer be bringing in the big bucks, does not mean that HE should be inaccessible or inadvisable.

Reinforcing stereotypes

Other than this report reinforcing stereotypes about HE, this paragraph doesn’t apply to us.

Chapter 5: What Councils and local partners can and are doing

Area 1: Early identification and support

Area 2: Preventative and restorative action

...there was not a single right approach to managing managed moves, fair access and the return of pupils who had been electively home educated;point of information: not all pupils who were HE have been to school before, and additionally, they may not need active extra support for the transition to school.

One way in which the principles of fairness and collective responsibility have been put into effect in Telford and Wrekin relates to their approach to children who are Electively Home Educated. In Telford and Wrekin, the Council and school leaders have agreed that the fairest approach to elective home education is that where possible any pupil returning from being electively home educated returns to their previous mainstream school. This has been agreed as an important means of ensuring that elective home education is not used as a way of removing a child from a school where it is not in the child’s best interests …

I can see this being good to prevent off-rolling. However, life isn’t always that straightforward. What about the case where a child is being incredibly bullied and so the parents remove them from the school roll to electively home educate them; after some time (years), the child’s confidence has built back up again, and they want to try school. Will they be forced back into the same school with the bullies?

As in many areas the rising numbers of children being electively home educated has been a concern in Warwickshire.

Why? That is a deeply biased and discriminatory response by Warwickshire council.

The Children Missing education team have agreed with schools and parents that they will implement a two week ‘cooling off period’ for every new request for elective home education during which they will work with the school and the family to explore the issues and try and find a resolution.

It depends what this ‘cooling off period’ is specifically for. When a parent decides to EHE and deregisters their child, the school must remove that child’s name immediately. There are no ifs, buts nor exceptions to this that I am aware of. However, if the school comes to an agreement with the LA to not fill that child’s place immediately, but wait two weeks, that does not seem as harmful to HE to me. Yes, there is a risk of scope creep, but there is with all this stuff.

Area 3: Re-engaging pupils who have been out of education

Area 4: Monitoring and tracking

This is the area most of concern to HErs, not lease because in the EHE Departmental Guidance it states the LA has no duty to monitor the education.

Lastly, local authorities underscored the importance of having well-established processes for tracking children who are not in formal, full-time education or at risk of missing out.

Tracking children who are missing education is a priority. EHE is not CME.

It also requires that the system has the capacity to follow-up cases where it is not known whether a child is in formal, full-time education, or the reasons why a child is not attending school full-time are not known, or in some cases to confirm that a child is actually receiving education where they are reported to be being educated.

And informal enquiries are absolutely fine. Immediately issuing a s347 notice to new HErs or long-term HErs who have been told their report is satisfactory, is not fine. <cough>Swindon<cough>

In response to rising numbers of children being electively home educated, and a greater proportion of these children having a history of exclusions, child protection concern or historic non-attendance, Portsmouth and its schools have developed the most recent collective protocol. Now all headteachers have agreed that they will not take a child off a school roll until there has been a meeting between the school, the local authority and the parent or carer. Schools have also agreed that any child who has been electively home educated for less than six months will automatically return to the original school roll if returning to mainstream education. In the interests of openness and transparency the local authority has also committed to reflecting numbers of electively home educated children back to schools. In the year that the new protocol has been in operation numbers of electively home educated children have begun to fall, whereas previously they were rising rapidly.

It was my understanding that schools must remove a child’s name immediately, and similarly (except for special schools and specific circumstances) the LA do not have to agree to the child being EHE. Any meeting requested by the school or LA at this stage is optional (are the parents told that?) and the parents do not have to attend. I have also heard that some schools are automatically reporting parents who want to deregister their child directly to Social Services. These heavy handed tactics, and people’s general fear of SS, is more likely to have an effect.

I will continue my, hopefully final, part 5 on Friday, if I can’t squeeze it in tomorrow evening.

For now, my brain is fried!

Link to Part 5: HERE