
Meanwhile, lots of DD1's dance friends were going on various residential courses with their schools. As my girls are home educated, I didn't want them to miss out of the experience, not least because I remember all the fun I had when I was on residentials at that age. So, when they asked if they could go on such a course, I stepped up to organise it.
Simultaneously, I contacted loads of activity centres within a 2-3hr radius of where I live to ask them a myriad of questions, whilst also started a FB group of people who were interested in joining us, if I organised a trip. Within days we had over 100 members who were interested, and wanted a say in the type of thing being done.
It is often said that the only thing home educators have in common is that they don't use schools, and that is very true! I had parents who would only allow their children to come if they didn't have to; and others who would only allow their children to come if they could attend too. Interested parents had children with a range of physical and learning difficulties, as well as a range of allergies. Some parents only wanted their children to attend during the day, not overnight (it's a residential!!). Some parents wanted all accompanying adults to have full DBS checks (if you arrange and pay for it, I'll gladly be DBS checked, but in the meantime, it ain't happening!). Some people would only attend if I arranged transport too (nope). And yet others wanted a say in everything, but had no intention to come.
Eventually, between all the venues that replied to me, and all the parents with their own conditions and questions that they desperately wanted me to ask, it got narrowed down to one activity centre that does everything we want it to: Parents can attend if they want to, or they can leave their children alone. There is a choice of 4 night (M-F) or 2 night (W-F) trips. They can cater for all physical and learning disabilities, and have even allowed some free Carer places for adults who have to accompany their children. They will accept DLA as part of the booking. "Supervisors" do not have to be DBS checked; but all their instructors are DBS checked and have first aid certificates etc. They can cater for all eating requirements and allergies as long as they know about them in advance. And we can put in our preferences for the activities we do (though they can't be guaranteed, as there will be other groups on site at the same time). All in all, it looked really good. The only requirement is that we need a minimum of 8 children on each trip (4 night or 2 night) in order for them to go ahead. Phew!
The system they use is that after booking, an initial deposit is required after 4 weeks; an interim deposit is required after a further 6 weeks; and the final balance is required 3 months before the trip.
Despite having over 100 adults in the FB group, when it actually came to asking for money, a lot of people decided that they were no longer interested. That was to be expected, and why I always ask for money upfront, as I can't afford to fund any shortfall! We had around 30 children sign up, over the two trips, so a nice amount.
As time went on, some people had to drop out of the trip. Initially it was younger siblings, or parents who felt they no longer needed to attend. For some people their circumstances changed, so they are no longer available. And for a couple of people, they had to pull out due to allergies. For each change, we were charged a cancellation fee equal to the individual deposits paid so far.

Back to the residential, and people are still dropping out; even after they've paid the final balance! We are now down to 9 children on the 2 night trip and 8 on the 4 night trip. I really hope nobody else pulls out between now and May (when we're going) because we're now at minimum numbers.
Also, though the activity centre has been really accommodating for all our random needs, the first set of invoices that I was sent through, in January, were incorrect - not least because they hadn't removed the two sets of deposits that I paid last year. We have already past the 3month deadline for paying the final balance, and the invoices have still not been corrected. I'm in this awkward situation where I don't want to pay them any more money until I know it's right, but I also don't want to forfeit out booking that as been many months in the waiting (or 'making' - I can't remember the right word). But, things are looking good, and I'm hopeful that I'll be able to pay the final amount this coming week. And, we've managed to sort out various mementos and souvenirs for those attending who wanted them.
So last year, I organised a day trip in this country, that had problems.
This year, we're going to a 4 night residential in this country, and I've had problems.
Please, please, please remind me not to up the ante again, and attempt to organise a residential either for longer time or in a different country. Nope. I don't want to do it.
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