Saturday 20 June 2020

Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl by Harriet Jacobs


 

Incidents in the Life of a Slave Girl is one of the books that can be listened to for free within the teen section on Audible Stories.  (Audible Stories are free for the duration that schools are closed for coronavirus.)  I have been listening to this book whilst completing my current Mosaic Craft project.

I chose this book to listen to as part of my commitment into understanding more about race relations and Black Lives Matter.  I recently watched the documentary 13th, all about the 13th Amendment and how though slavery officially stopped, it just changed form afterwards.

The audio book has the subtitle "written by herself" which prompted me to do a bit of research since the author is Harriet Jacobs, but the story revolves around a slave called Linda Brent.  They are indeed the same person; Linda was a pseudonym used by Jacobs.

The blurb says:
This autobiographical account by a former slave is one of the few extant narratives written by a woman. Written and published in 1861, it delivers a powerful portrayal of the brutality of slave life. Jacobs speaks frankly of her master's abuse and her eventual escape, in a tale of dauntless spirit and faith.
Listening to this book, and being a mother myself, it is horrific to consider what she, and many other people, had to endure as slaves.  Not only what they went through themselves, but the powerlessness to be able to keep their own children safe.

This book is definitely worth reading/listening to for everyone.  There is some sensitive topics (eg sexual violence) described, but not in so much detail that it would be pornographic, and I agree with Audible's suggestion that you should be at least teenage to appreciate this book.  When my children are older, I will encourage them to read it.

Friday 19 June 2020

Hair Update

I've just realised today that I had my hair dyed over 6 months ago!
I didn't expect it to even last until Christmas, but the colour stayed and I was suitably impressed.


Previously when I've dyed my hair (either myself, or at a hairdressers) the dye would come out thick and fast, and I was led to believe that my hair simply wasn't porous enough to hold the dye, even with bleaching first.  So though I had wanted purple hair for years, it was always a pipe dream, and I hoped that when I finally go grey, my hair would change sufficiently that I would be able to dye it.

Then a friend was telling me about her hairdresser, and personal recommendations are always the best, so after saving up, and psyching myself up, I went to Sharon Rewston.  Not only did she do the usual allergy test at the pre-appointment, Sharon also took a sample of hair and bleached and dyed it to see the colour that would come out.  I wasn't happy with the first try, so she tried again and got a brighter colour.

The day of the appointment came, and I was expecting it to take 3-4hours; it actually took over 8, but given the amount of work that needed to be done, it wasn't a surprise.  The price was more than I had previously spent on my hair, but it was agreed beforehand (even with the work taking longer than expected) and was definitely worth it.


The resulting colour was even brighter than I expected, so I was happy at the time and as I said above, I was still happy at Christmas time when the colour remained.

Over the following months, the colour did fade slightly, and my roots were growing.  I made an appointment for the start of May, where the colour would be refreshed and my roots would be dyed a plum colour.  (Forward planning, so that the next time my hair was to be dyed I could go bright pillar-box red, and the colours would gradually go from purple to red.)

Unfortunately, Coronavirus happened.  Lockdown happened and everything had to close.  My appointment was cancelled until further notice, but I understood, because everyone's health is more important than the colour of my hair.

During lockdown it has mainly been very hot and sunny.  My mental health is better if I'm outside, so I have been sitting as much as possible in the back garden, getting plenty of Vitamin D.
This has had the unexpected effect of lightening my hair.  I say unexpected, because it didn't occur to me, though logically the sun always bleaches colour.  Even my natural hair colour, which is very dark brown, the sun causes the red pigment to show more and gives me golden strands.  


Though my hair colour is now fading, I have to say that I'm loving the fade.  It has gone through Unicorn colours (as the pic above) and the blue is now turning a green, which DD2 reliably informs me is turning my hair Mermaid colours.

Yes, I would like my hair to be bright and bold again, but given current circumstances, I am doubly impressed with Sharon Rewston's hairdressing skills that not only has the colour lasted for over 6 months now, but that it is changing and fading in such a gorgeous way.  

So that is the point of this post.  If you need a brilliant hairdresser and you can travel to Swindon, then once lockdown has finished, call up Sharon.  I can't recommend her enough.

Thursday 18 June 2020

Run by Patti Larsen

I chose this book based on it being L in my list.  I hoped by the title it would be a thrilling read, and I was not wrong.


Reid is a 16yo boy who wakes up bound and gagged in the back of a truck.  When his abductors release him into the forest, he knows he has to run. And run he does - immediately finding the body of a kid who is pinned to a tree, with body parts trailing.

The blurb says:
Sixteen-year-old Reid thinks life is back to normal. His sister Lucy pulls herself together and cuts him free from a year of foster care. She promises to take care of him, that her new boss and her new life are what they both needed to start again. Until Reid is taken in the middle of the night, dumped in a wild stretch of forest far from home with no idea why he is there. Lost and afraid, he learns to run from the hunters who prowl the darkness, their only pleasure chasing down kids like him. And killing them.
The book is extremely well written.  It manages to keep the adrenaline pumping through every single page.  There is terror bleeding from this book, so much so that despite the protagonist being 16, I wouldn't suggest children read these books until they are at least this age.  It definitely has a feel of The Hunger Games about it, so if you liked that, you'd like this.

I loved this book and couldn't put it down.  I started reading it yesterday morning, and just over 24hours later, I am about to start reading Book 4 in The Hunted series.  They are all just as good.  A tense, enjoyable story.

Wednesday 17 June 2020

My Thoughts on Elizabeth Bartholet's Article



I am going to be straight up honest here: I have not read the full 80page review that Bartholet wrote.
Sorry, but I simply don't have time.  Should LAs or the government in the UK start referring to it, I now will be able to find an easily accessible copy, but for now it is going unread.

What I am going to comment on, however, is the summary that was written in Harvard Magazine.  As that summary quotes and paraphrases Bartholet, I will go through that with my thoughts and opinions.  Additionally, I have her words from yesterday to draw on to add context and meaning/intention to the written word.


In the article, Bartholet is calling for a "presumptive ban" on homeschooling because it may stop them from contributing to a democratic society.  She asserts that homeschooling violates a child's right to education and their right to freedom from abuse.

Yesterday, historian Milton Gaither stated repeatedly that there is not much difference in outcomes for home schooled and public schooled children in the US.  It is, however, environmental factors that make a difference, not limited to the time and input a parent has in the education of their child.  [This latter sentence is something that I have heard and read in research before (of course, now I look I cannot find the link.  If you reading this have the link handy, please comment below and I'll add it at a later date).]  Bartholet, however, countered this, often repeating that only "successful" homeschoolers allowed their children to partake in research, and there are many hidden homeschoolers that nobody knows about.  Normally, I would go on to make the point that in the UK, there have been ZERO Serious Case Reviews where home educating has been the sole or primary contributing factor to abuse (as I have stated HERE).  However, Bartholet is from the US and from the discussion yesterday there have been cases brought up involving horrific abuse, so I won't claim that what is true in the UK is also true in the US.

Bartholet is concerned about the lack of regulation in some states, that there is no check about the academic qualifications of the parents, nor their ability to teach. Again, this has been addressed in the paragraph above, but if that were not enough - if parents have come out of school without a GED, why should they entrust the education of their children to the state? She is also concerned about the lack of a home schooling register in some states, so I will repeat the link to my response why a home education register is not a good idea.

Bartholet says home education can isolate children, and yesterday commented that some parents choose homeschooling purposely to isolate the kids.  Instead, she proposes that each child should have "mandated reporters" to whom the child has to be shown regularly - this reminds me of the Scottish "Named Person" scheme, that many Scottish Home Educators had been against.


However, I do actually think one of Bartholet's ideas is somewhat praiseworthy - that parents should be checked prior to home education for reports of abuse and neglect.  Rather than a presumptive ban on homeschooling, or a reactive check on parents, I think this should be a forward acting policy.  If someone has a record of abuse or neglect, I think it is right that the court should order (in advance) that these people should have highly visible children and regular encounters with social services.  Now, I am going to put some caveats here.  Firstly, as Graham Stuart MP said when he was Chair of the Education Select Committee, home educated children are "peculiarly visible", so when I am saying visible, I mean to doctors, social services and EHEOs.  Secondly, whereas Bartholet implied yesterday that there is no smoke without fire, and if someone has had accusations of abuse they shouldn't be allowed to home school, I think this preemptive court order to should solely for people who have been through court and proven to have been abusive or neglectful.  There are many cases of a spurned partner who reports their Ex to social services maliciously, and just because of this fabricated report, it is not right that this parent should be prevented from home educating their children should they wish to.  (Fortunately, social services in the UK are able to see through malicious referrals.)

Bartholet states that up to 90% of homeschoolers in the US make that choice due to conservative Christian beliefs and extreme religious ideologues, including questioning science, female subservience and white supremacy.  Again, I'm aware of a huge disparity be the US and the UK, and that is true within Christian circles too.  However, wherever you fall on the creation/evolution debate questioning science is never a bad thing - questioning what we know is exactly what causes breakthroughs in knowledge.  Science is the collection of knowledge that we currently have, and is constantly expanding, growing and changing as our understanding improves.  If you think science cannot or should not be questioned, then indeed that is akin to science being your unquestionable religion.  Without having read her 80 page document, I don't know exactly what she means by female subservience, but I'm assuming she is referring to Ephesians 5:22 (from NIV) "Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord", having ignored the previous verse 21 which states "Submit to one another out of reverence for Christ." and verse 28 that says "In this same way, husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself."  I acknowledge that there may be some branches of "Christianity" that take these verses out of context and to extreme, but there is nothing inconsistent between calling yourself a Christian and a Feminist.  Finally, white supremacy is antithetical to the teachings of Christ.


An interesting follow-up to this was a question that was asked yesterday: Should children who are public schooled be mandated to visit religious or other private schools? Bartholet replied that no they shouldn't, because parents who wish to can teach religion at home.  To me, this is clearly double standards, and suggests to me that Bartholet is an atheist (I have no idea whether she has a faith or not).  If the parents of a child at a state school are atheists, when can that child encounter religion or faith in order to widen their education and have opportunity to encounter new ideas (given the separation of state and religion in the US)?  The fact that Bartholet doesn't see anything amiss here, demonstrates to me that she does not see any value in faith nor for children being exposed to it. 
Fortunately, in the UK there is not this separation.  My Home Educated children are free to explore their own faith (or lack of faith in the case of DD1), having me being a Christian, friends who are atheists, friends who are Muslims and visiting a Sikh Temple.  I would like to also visit a Synagogue and a Hindu Temple, but that will have to wait until Coronavirus has passed.

Yesterday there was also a discussion and question about whether homeschooling can produce civic-minded and well-rounded children/adults.  Bartholet says in her article "But it’s also important that children grow up exposed to community values, social values, democratic values, ideas about nondiscrimination and tolerance of other people’s viewpoints" but I'm not sure she gives the same exposure to schooled children, nor the same tolerance of home educating families.

When talking about the power and influence parents can have over their children, Bartholet says 
"The issue is, do we think that parents should have 24/7, essentially authoritarian control over their children from ages zero to 18? I think that’s dangerous... I think it’s always dangerous to put powerful people in charge of the powerless, and to give the powerful ones total authority."  
I know other commentators and bloggers have already commented on the fact that the government is run by powerful people who are in charge of the powerless (us).  Additionally, given the recent race relations and examples of police brutality that have come to light, I would want to question Bartholet whether she is in favour of defunding the police?, though I expect not.


Finally, though Bartholet concedes that some parents may be able to educate their children effectively and efficiently, she thinks parents should need to continuously prove that their case is justified in being able to provide a better education than at a state school.  In short, she thinks that rather than innocent until proven guilty, parents need to be assumed to be guilty of abuse and neglect and only allowed to homeschool if the parents can prove otherwise.  

Tuesday 16 June 2020

Homeschooling: Protecting Freedom, Protecting Children


I was invited by a friend to watch this webinar, and here are my notes from the session.

At the time of watching, I wasn’t sure whether the video would be available afterwards, so I wrote detailed notes about what each of the participants were saying. I have tried to make this easier to read by removing my short-hand, and I have added in various links etc that will add more information, but I apologise in advance if I have missed anything.
I have not added my thoughts and feelings to this - this is just the raw overview of the discussion.

[Edit: Here is my post with my own thoughts/reaction]

To clarify – these are my notes/paraphrasing, not direct quotes.  


The Cato Institute is a public policy research organization — a think tank — dedicated to the principles of individual liberty, limited government, free markets, and peace. Its scholars and analysts conduct independent, nonpartisan research on a wide range of policy issues.”

Each panellist has 7 min for their prepared monologue, then following by Q&A session.

Neal McCluskey is also the host – director of Cato Centre for EducationalFreedom.
Looking along libertarian lines – people who are able to look after themselves should be able to without government involvement as long as there’s nor force or fraud involved.
There is an assumption that children are not able to self govern, so the question is who should make those decisions – parents or state? The phrase “parents have the right...” is concerning because nobody has the right to make decisions for others. However, parents have a duty to make those decisions such that they are enabling and equipping those children to become self governing adults. The role of the government should be restrained. Government is there to protect freedom, therefore the state should only get involved if the children have had harm inflicted on them.
Obviously physical abuse and neglect are examples, and legitimate concern.
Standard judicial procedure: Suspicion, investigation and trial – should be assumed innocent until proven guilty. May be reasonable to have annual visit.
Government is a unique threat to educational freedom as they impose orthodoxy on everyone which is antithetical to liberty. So what is the role of the government? Governments should only intervene if children don’t have the basic building blocks (reading, writing and simple maths) however, other subjects and topics are only matter of opinion, so government should not be involved, especially when they say there are some things that should not be taught. There may be compromise as children are not equipped to advocate for themselves. Ultimately, government control is dangerous, but since children cannot advocate for themselves, there needs to be some compromise.

John Holt 1977 concerned about state involvement. 36 states had a variety of implied or explicit home schooling legislation. In many states, Homeschooling is regulated like private schools, which means there is wide ranging regulation.
In the 1980s, the majority of homeschoolers were fundamentalist religionists/Christians so there became a battle from the courts to states legislators. Through legislation, grass roots Homeschoolers showed their force to keep pressure on until they got what they wanted. By 1990s Homeschooling was much easier to do. Legislation in states varies, ranging from only needing to deregister from school, to minimum qualifications upon leaving school, and to imposing full curriculum.
Overall Homeschooling is mostly unregulated in the US; this has made it possible for criminals to use homeschooling to hide abuse. There are no specific records, only anecdotes. The Home schooling and Invisible Children website has details of horrific cases- needs to balance these cases whilst ensuring Homeschoolers maintain their freedom.

Homeschoolers are understandably upset and angry about Elizabeth Bartholet’s article that came out early in 2020. Fundamental Question: should the government intervene in family life if there is no evidence of wrong doing? Should families be under close watch? Presumption of guilty.
Barthelot’s arguments:
Ideological - A very large proportion of Homeschooling parents are purposely isolating their children
Academic - Homeschooled kids are 2-3 more likely to visit library and 1.5x more likely to visit school or book store
If the government can’t guarantee standards for kids in school, how can they do the same for Homeschoolers?
Welfare – Homeschooling parents are no more likely to abuse children, some say less likely. Ignoring abuse by educators and peers in education institutions
1/10 children in school will be sexually abused by educators in school

We may not agree with people’s choice to educate their own children, but should not allow government force and state violence against children

Instead of presumptive bans, we should be celebrating freedom.


Children should be seen as having rights equal to adult rights. Children don’t have power to protect themselves so it’s important the government be there as protector for children and be able to intervene to protect fundamental rights:
-protection against abuse and neglect
-right to education
Need to think about the children’s right to positive interaction from government/
Most countries in the world have written into their constitutions children’s rights

2 major concerns of current unregulated state, that there is no meaningful regulation of
-protection against abuse and neglect
-right to education

I never said I was for a total ban and I don’t think a presumptive ban isn’t what Kerry described.
As a general matter, masses of Homeschooling parents are doing a great job, and most don’t abuse, however my concern is with a subset of those Homeschooled children.
We don’t have laws because all children are abused, but because a subset are. Similarly, there needs to be regulation for Homeschooled children. There are a couple of studies that show a worrisome correlation between Homeschooling and abuse. More generally Homeschoolers “very often” raise their children up in significant isolation. Isolation is a risk.
What protects children? If we built in mandated reporters who come into regular contact with children. Kids in state schools get this minimum check, so Homeschooled kids need it too. Before you’re allowed to Homeschool there should be a check with CPS to see if family have a record or check of abuse and neglect.
Important there be contact beyond that that homeschooling families aught to see people other than their families, preferably in a public school. A once/year visit is not enough to protect children.
There needs to be minimum regulation to ensure children have minimum right to education, for employment, opportunities. There should be some check to ensure they are able to teach. There needs to be meaningful assessment by state on annual basis to check the children are learning. Finally, education needs to include exposure to views and values that are different to those of the parents. So when they become adults they have meaningful opportunity to choose different to their parents.

Q&As:

Q: Do we have reason to believe that having kids in public schools has a greater net gain than if parents can educate how they want?
Do we have reason to believe public schools are safer?
NM: evidence to suggest state schools are not doing well producing good citizens
EB: Agree public schools have lots of problems. Often will be the case Homeschoolers will do better case of educating and protecting their kids. They have the right to do that. However, there should be a burden on the parents to show their desire to educate their kids, ability to teach their children, and children should go to a public school for some courses, even if schools are failing, because it’s safer to see more people.
KM: The issue is that government schools are not safe for many children, and this is a highly regulated standardised system of schooling, with high surveillance, video cameras, metal detectors etc. and there are still plenty of children who are being abused at school . We cannot say that state schooling is protecting Homeschooled kids.
MG: Soooo many variables, basically there is not a lot of difference how Homeschoolers turn out compared to school kids turn out. There is not the data, but looking at everything overall, there is not much difference. It is important to not look at anecdotes. The outcomes of kids is much more based on the environment they come from at home – marital statues of parents, home wealth, parents interest in education etc.
EB: I’m going to differ with Milton’s conclusions, but I think we don’t know enough to think the outcomes are similar, because we don’t have big enough studies. The Homeschooled kids who do well, yes they are comparable to state schools, but doesn’t look at those that don’t do well. There is a subset that we need to worry about in an unregulated home schooling setting.

Q: What strategy do we have to help kids who are mistreated?
NM:I think innocent until proven guilty, but abuse is real.
KM: How to we help kids in both Homeschooling situation and in government school. There are child abuse laws in every state, and these should be enforced. CPS needs to be reformed so they can find abuse cases. Problem is that we are conflating abuse and Homeschooling. We should not be adding a layer of suspicion on a subset of people. This is true of abuse that happens in government schools. I’m not convinced more regulation will improve things for children.
MG: I see myself as a historian, but will step out of my role. Homeschooling is being used as a mechanism to abuse children, which is what I think some basic minimal contact that Neal suggested should be instated.
EB: As Milton said it’s obvious. There are examples of parents who have been reported for abuse who claim to be Homeschooling. There are some studies. In Connecticut, look at every child withdrawn within a period of time; 36% were to parents who had reports of abuse or neglect, so these children were at risk. Another study from paediatricians – small sample size of those who have experience horrific torture, 76% were Homeschooled kids. Obviously they kept at home knowing there won’t be witnesses and will get away with it.
KM: A large % of the small number cited by EB were already known to CPS, therefore shows a clear problem with CPS. Again, there should be issues with convicted parents, the courts should be putting restrictions on those parents, not on all parents.

Q: Founding fathers’ education was much less than standard schooling, so why do you think Homeschooling isn’t wide ranging enough to produce well thought out/rounded citizens as adults?

EB: Homeschooling has interesting origins, major strain in early years was John Holt’s books, and made me seek out schools that enabled creative learning. There is no research to say one way or another about whether Homeschoolers are capable citizens. Studies by Homeschoolers only show the subset of successful Homeschooled kids, not the subset that I’m worried about. Absence of meaningful research means we can’t know the whole Homeschooled population, and therefore can’t study them all. We only know about the successful ones, that parents are willing to share about.
KM: Homeschoolers disentangle education from schooling and become immersed in the people, places and things of their community. I disagree with EB that many Homeschoolers are isolated, especially in 2020 when Homeschoolers are economically and ideologically diverse and are immersed in their communities. Albert Chang at University of Arkansas shows Homeschoolers are more politically tolerant than students at state or public schools.
MG: One of the major themes of my book is that Homeschooling is very different today to that of founding fathers. Modern Homeschooling is reaction against state schooling. Previously people Homeschooled in order to open up options to their children, so was very common, but getting less common in the 20th Century, and becoming more common from the 1970s. Whilst EB’s point that research isn’t population wide is true, there are some random sample surveys that have proven statistically to represent the wider population. Homeschooling is not going to make you more or less civic, it’s to do with the parents.

Q:
NM: I suggested one way to make sure no kids go through the cracks, there should be a standardised test on read, writing, arithmetic, but standard testing is problematic as it encourages state-based curriculum. Is there a way to test without forcing this curriculum?

KM: whose standard? Parents often choose Homeschooling because they are worried about state schooling, because they do not like standardised testing. Much of the growth in Homeschooling is from urban, secular parents who want a different education for their children. Average age for reading is about 8yos in the homeschooling population, which is higher than in government schools, but still the same outcome. Also, some parents of children with SEN, so I’d worry about how standard testing would impact those children. Whose standard?
MG: Yes, I agree with KM. If the parent has academic competence, then the parents should have as much freedom as possible. As long as the parent has GED, that’s fine, but there shouldn't be a fixed curriculum or standardised testing. Maybe a one time test age 13, but there should be much freedom.
EB: I disagree with both previous speakers. Should children have total control? There should be a balance. Parents have some control, but state should have a say to ensure the children have a future and grow up to have a positive influence in their future. It makes sense for the state to say that by the child is 18 there is a minimum knowledge of writing, reading, maths, science etc. The tests are more meaningful for kids, than requiring credentials for parents. There should be annual tests. Do you wan 100% control for parents, or would kids be better off if there’s a balance between state and parents control?

Q:
Should people who go to public schools be mandated to go to a religious school or other schooling? If we’re looking at widening education, shouldn’t all students have opportunities to new ideas?
MG: I don’t have a say. I like the idea, but this is more something to do on your own, rather than it being state mandated.
EB: public schools should def teach in the school context diversity, religion, non-discriminatory attitudes etc. It doesn’t make sense for me to say these kids should then go to a different school. These kids then go home, so will be exposed to values from parents and community so I don’t agree these kids are missing out on alternative vies.
NM: If public schools must by law be non-religious, how to children then get experience and exposure to a religion?
EB: At home. Parents at home are free to bring their kids up to church and religious classes if they want. Schools shouldn’t teach that.
KM: I agree with Milton that we can’t mandate this and require exposure to all different viewpoints. It’s peculiar that EB singles out Homeschoolers for this, but not for private schools. It seems to me that this is an important issue as MG says Private education is as unregulated as Homeschooling.

Q: If Homeschoolers should have irregular drop ins, why are families trusted in the summer or before the child is school age?
KM: This discussion about regular home visits of government authorities with no evidence, has received the most criticism from the article.
EB: I definitely have fears for kids in the 0-5 age range that they won’t be seen. In Europe home visitation is considered the normal. Do I think there should be more such programs? Absolutely. Going to school is a huge protection for children from abuse and neglect.
MG: Part of what is at stake is that the history of Homeschooling is the adversarial relationship between Homeschoolers and the government. We need to move beyond that and realise we are the gov. What about having 2 people ‘named people’ being your eyes and submitting that they’ve been seen as part of your Homeschooling paperwork?

Q: If state has been shown to not provide a good education, why should Homeschooling parents hand their children to the state?
MG: I won’t grant the premise of the question – research shows public schools do better than many private schools.
NM: That study is debatable, as is all research.
KM: That’ right. My recommendation is to keep this at the legislative/state level, rather than moving to federal courts. This is a local issue and should be decided at the state level.
EB: I agree with Milton that state schools do a good job. I would also say parents haven’t “proved” they’re doing a good job all the time – we know some parents don’t, some can’t be trusted not to abuse, neglect or exploit their children. It’s a balance. What HSLDA is demanding is parent power. They want parents to have total right over their children. Neither parents nor state are perfect. There needs to be a balance. The state needs to have the right to exert the rights of the children.

NM: Really interesting discussion. Sorry we couldn’t get to all questions. I hope we covered most of the topics. Thanks to the panellists. Everyone here wants to get to what is best for the children and for the society.